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In Conversation with Kate Oldfield

At London Letters our goal is to create beautiful stationery pieces that encourages you to write more letters. We believe that letters play an important role in modern society, and we're not alone in this view.

In 'In Conversation With' we chat with epistolarians of note to find out why they think letters are special, why they think they still matter today, and what drives their passion to promote them. 

This month we were thrilled to interview Kate Oldfield of The Writing Well. After a successful career in publishing, Kate became a writing mentor and worked with small groups running creative writing workshops. When Covid hit, this transitioned online where her focus became running workshops for neighbours, family and friends so that they could come together to foster a sense of community through conversation and creativity. Therapeutic forays into journalling and selfcare often included writing letters to their younger or future selves.

Out of these workshops a small online community became a much bigger online and in-person community now called 'The Writing Well' where Kate runs workshops, cowriting groups, events, competitions and retreats for writers who want to improve their craft, finish their projects, discover new writing friends or use writing to improve their wellbeing. They are currently planning a letter-writing workshop to encourage people back to the page!

"Letters have a special aura. Firstly they are specifically to you and no-one else! Someone has taken the time to write to you and for that I am always both delighted and grateful. Seeing people's handwriting is so rare these days - and you can tell a lot about a person from their script."

Tell us a little bit about your own letter writing history. Do you recall the first letter you received, or wrote?

I have always been a writer – poetry, fiction, essays and, always, letters. My parents moved quite a bit as we were growing up so letter-writing was the way of keeping in touch with old friends and my letters criss-crossed their way from Shropshire back to Yorkshire, from Scotland to Shropshire, from Dorset to Scotland and then to London - and then further afield as the friends I made in Freshers Week at uni all left to study abroad in China, the US, Italy, Germany and France.
My grandparents were good letter writers, as were my parents when I went away, and I can’t remember a time that I wasn’t writing or receiving a letter!
I got back in touch with a friend I was at school with when we were 14 and he told me that he had always loved receiving my letters and had kept them. That meant a lot!

How often do you write letters now?

Of course analogue writing is the best but email and WhatsApp, and social media tend to get in the way of my old letter-writing output – when I liked to write at least one letter a day. These days I will write a couple of postcards a week and probably a letter only once a month. Typing that makes me feel sad as I am always talking to another writer friend about writing more letters, or maybe incorporating them somehow in my Substack, but so far all attempts have felt showy and a bit cringeworthy! However, I am still determined to find a way of writing more of them. I am writing a novel set between Germany and Scotland in WW2 and there are lots of letters in that!

Describe your letter writing set up for us. Do you have any favourite stationery or pens you use? Where do you like to write from?

I have a favourite fountain pen, which is a lovely metallic burn orange and flows so well, and I like to use a dark sepia ink with that. I write anywhere, on anything. (I am obsessed with stationery so have draws of it.) I still have a little wooden writing box which my friend India gave to me when I was 18.  I think morning letters reveal much more to me about what I am thinking and evening letters more about how I am feeling. 

What type of content would you use for a letter, as opposed to digital communication?

My letters follow the pen. Some storytelling from my week, always a funny little thing I might have done or heard. Two old friends still call me ‘another true story’ because of the anecdotes. (I was brought up on a farm on the edge of the North York moors and gathering around the table with our father and all the various farm workers to listed to them all sharing stories and anecdotes was a wonderful thing which has had huge influence on my life- embellishments and all.

Do you feel any positive benefits to your mental health when you're writing or receiving a letter?

Yes. A sense of connection, of being heard, of being understood. But obviously, as I use letter writing as part of my writing for wellbeing workshops and retreats, I am a fully paid up, flag-waving member of the Letters are Good for You club.

Are there any famous letters you're especially fond of?

I love Pascal writing with reference to what he had just sent: "I have made this longer than usual because I have not had time to make it shorter.
I relish cross letters to newspaper editors and, of course, Rilke's Letters to a young poet are just full of beautiful things. Shaun Usher’s Letters of Note collections are brilliant - and hearing actors read from them at Hay Lit Fest in ‘Letters Live’ is always a highpoint of the festival.

What do you think makes letters special?

Letters have a special aura. Firstly they are specifically to you and no-one else! Someone has taken the time to write to you and for that I am always both delighted and grateful. Seeing people's handwriting is so rare these days - and you can tell a lot about a person from their script.

Are there any letters that you've held onto for a long time? Do you have a favourite?

Too many to mention I think - but specifically those from my father who died when I was only 25; and every single one from my friend Nick Bonner who is a wonderful illustrator. He has lived abroad for too many years now and I miss him very much, but his illustrated letters help bridge the gap!

How do you envisage the future of letter writing? 

Unfortunately analogue letter writing is under threat from all directions. People have less time to write because ’screen time’ robs our time through our addiction to the dopamine hit of responding to those little red dots that appear on the corners of our apps. And the world is poorer for it.

What would you say to someone that's never written or received a letter before, to encourage them to try it?

I run a co-writing group every Sunday morning in Oxford at the Lamb & Flag pub in St Giles, and many people come to write things of all forms and genres - I always ask for a show of hands to see who is writing what. I say ‘fiction?’ and get a big show of hands, then go through the list of poetry, scriptwriting, memoir etc. When I end with ‘handwritten letters?’ I only get a couple of people putting their hand up and I make a big effort to encourage everyone else to join them!
I think one way of getting people to try writing letters i just encouraging them to write to someone they love very dearly. To think very hard of them receiving the letter and what they would love to hear. Using a pen that is comfortable to hold and that flows freely is super helpful. I encourage all my writers to write without stopping for at least 7 minutes - something magical happens after about 6 minutes, when the ‘handbrake’ in our head switches off and we drop in to a calmer state which allows access to our subconscious and thoughts start to flow up and on to the page. The other way of showing people how special it is to receive a letter is to get them to write a letter of kindness and gentleness to themselves, full of anecdotes of all the beautiful small things they have paid attention to around them. Then to post it!

 

A huge thank you to Kate for her time and passion. To find out more about Kate's writing workshops or to get in touch with her, head here

1 comment

  • What a lovely post.Ive just had a writing desk that needed some TLC.All finished now.I love it.So now I need to write,join a penpal group or letter writing club because I haven’t written letters since I was young,so a bit embarrassed that I am out of practice.Reading this post has given me encouragement & excitement.I love letters & think it a wonderful pastime instead of screen time.Best wishes.
    Sue G.

    Sue

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